Sure, why not? I'm a good listener. Weird? I don't think that you could say anything that would sound weird since we're in a forum full of people who like to wear diapers!
First though, you should see the following clip from an episode of "American Dad" ->
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Nie23G9yNts. Afterwards, you should read the following article ->
https://www.webmd.com/sex-relationsh...exual-fetish#1. If your fetishes bring you pleasure and Jen has no problem with them, then you shouldn't despair (Or need to have to "cope" with them). From what you're saying though, I think that probably either one of you or both have a problem with one or more of your fetishes (Carefully read the last section titled "Are Fetishes OK?" in page 2 of the article to which I linked).
