It would not be your fault? You would be the one wearing a diaper of your own accord in front of your own toddler, so how could it possibly not be your fault if he/she doesn't want to give up wearing diapers for potty training? Talk about denial (Just kidding)!

There is no second meaning. It's all straight forward (No pun intended). Did you read the list that I linked to in my previous message? ->
http://mayahuskee.deviantart.com/jou...ians-214218387
According to that list, "A lipstick lesbian is a woman who loves other women, but also loves her clothes and makeup and shoes. She tends to dress on the femmy side. A chapstick lesbian is also known as a soft butch or androgynous. She usually dresses quite casually and does not wear make-up. A soft butch is a lesbian whose appearance is generally androgynous. She may dress and act in a masculine manner, but be soft and more feminine in the inside. Also, a soft butch can be someone who falls somewhere between butch and femme, but closer to the butch side." There is also another type of lesbian (Besides Lipstick) that I'm guessing you might be based on our conversation -> "A Blue Jean Femme is a lesbian who identifies as femme, or feminine, but prefers jeans and more casual clothing to dresses and skirts." So with which do you think that you identify?

