you mean you've never heard the term *butch* as to us gay women hellshero? shame on you! and coming from the most BA Dude Ever? i'm quite shocked!!

okay, let me try to explain the facts of life to you. in any gay relationship, i can only speak for us women, there's always a dominant girl who is mainly the *alpha* female. she rules the roost and tells her little girl what to do. if there's any baby scene, the mommy is the butchie one. more muscular and aggressive as the initiator. her little girl (the femme) does what she's told to do by mommy. get it?? so the butch is kind of like her husband/protector, and her femme is her wife. make it clear now? if not, feel free to ask questions. there's really nothing to hide.
