I'm glad that possible misunderstanding has been cleared up. It's okay if you don't know what to say. Sometimes having someone to just listen to your problems can be therapeutic for someone who is still grieving.
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I've found a website that may appear to be a good resource for helping people who've lost their parents manage [Not overcome] their loss (See ->
https://www.joincake.com/blog/losing...lose-together/). Under the section "1. Learn About the Grief Process", it says that "... loss can compound as any grief process may take several months and up to two years for it to resolve. ... Overall you can expect to start feeling better after six months to one year from the time of death." So, it looks like it might possibly take a while (Six months at the least) before I'm able to start to manage [Not overcome] my loss and even longer (Hopefully not two years) before I'm possibly able to fully manage it all and begin to "Move forward" with my life without my parents. It's been four months since my mother passed away but I still feel the loss. It's been nineteen months since my father passed away though during the fifteen months when my mother was still with me, we were able to console one another, so it was easier for me to handle my loss. Now that she's also gone, it's even harder for me to cope with it all. Also, I think that having to take care of my mother at home when she was still with me helped me to "push aside" much of my grief for my father's passing since I needed to concentrate on performing that task. Now that they're both gone, I'm beginning to feel some of that suppressed grief on top of the grief over the loss of my mother.
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I've found a book listed under a linked page in the third section "3. Grow Your New Identity" with suggested books on grief that might help me better deal with my loss (See ->
https://www.joincake.com/blog/books-on-grief/). The 240 page book is titled "How to Survive the Loss of a Parent: A Guide For Adults" By Lois F. Akner C.S.W. with Cathrine Whitney. I found it for sale on eBay in New condition for $8.48 ($4.99 + $3.49 Shipping ->
https://www.ebay.com/itm/How-to-Surv...t/303737465272) and for loan at my local library. I think that I'll borrow it first and read the first few chapters to see whether it can really help me before deciding whether or not to buy it on eBay.
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