It's good to hear that all is fine with the two of you. For a moment, I thought that you would leave us as well since Xero no longer visits here. I don't know if you've noticed, but a lot of members are concerned that the site doesn't have a "Main go to person". Recently, the site was under attack three times by spambot(s) that left Spam threads behind in the General Chat area. Ryoko Matoi did her best to handle the situation but not being a technical person, she just banned the "user" (Not the IP address) and deleted the last Spam thread which does not ensure that the site will be protected in the future against spam attacks from that or other spambots. I had recommended that a vBulletin anti-spam solution be applied (It involves some vBulletin setting changes and two add-ons to be installed) ->
https://diaperedanime.com/forum/show...517/index.html but no one among the active staff other than Ryoko Matoi acted. Most recently, the site went down last weekend for more than 24 hours. There appeared to be a problem with the web host's server which only affected this site and not the other remaining sister sites (AnimeOTK, FurryAi and YaoiAi [ODAnime was shutdown due to lack of visits. AnimeAi was also affected by the web hosts' server crash AFAIK]). When we were finally back up, many members here, including myself, expressed their concerns in the Shoutbox that we don't have a representative in the "Admin council" (I think that's what someone called it) that oversees all of Ai's sites and thus our site has the lowest priority when it comes to being routinely maintained or secured whenever a problem arises (e.g. An external attack or internal hardware/software failure). You can read the Shoutbox Archive for all the details ->
https://diaperedanime.com/forum/infe...archive&page=4 (Starting with toxic34's post made on [June 17, 17 03:21PM] - You might have to go back a page or two if more peeps add any more Shoutbox messages after the writing of this VM message). Would you know or could you find out whether Ai is in the process of picking out a new main admin who will be dedicated to oversee this site?
BTW - I noticed that you changed your avatar. If you don't mind my asking, who is the character and why did you pick one that is a male? You can PM me if you want.