Bandit Keith Bandit Keith is offline

Sorry I have been off... still in a massive funk and struggling with RP as of late.

I feel needy but don't wanna bother you to satisfy what I feel I am needing. *Flops*

I enjoyed the conversation as well. But I am going to be kicking it off to bed. I should be on tomorrow. Good night.

I am the younger sibling. Im 30, sister is 37. (It will be 31/38) this year. However my mother spoiled my sister rotten. She could do no wrong and got whatever she wanted. (Still does) She got the best of everything, got taken on vacations everywhere, other states, countries, everything. It was blatiantly obvious that she was My mothers favorite child even after I came, and definatly even more so after the divorce.


I on the other hand was lucky we went to NH for a few years to my aunt/uncles / my god parents for christmas. No Texas, California, Tennessee, Ireland, England for me. And I had to fight tooth and nail to get anything I wanted... where as my sister just asks and*poof* she gets it.


So many people thing the younger sibling gets the best of everything in a family. When they dont take into account that by the time the 2nd(Or more) sibling comes into the picture. The money isnt there anymore to be able to spend all freely. Where as the first child gets all the advantages of the parents having more disposable income.

Sounds like they are both varying degrees of hate in different catagories.


And where the gifts are useable....they are not by me...and I normally jsut give them to my mother. Which it wouldnt surprise me if my sister expects me to that and its her plan all along.


But yea...i think garbage and broken shit is another layer of hate... but at least its transparent I would say, instead of fake caring.

My sister hates me... every year she gets me some insutling gift, something that she put no thought into, something I would NEVER use, or a combination of all 3. And yet my mother just keeps saying that "Oh she doesnt mean it....shes trying to be nice..."


What she got me...

2019: This shitty Gift card. and a Sweater from TJMaxx that I dont shop at and wont wear all the while saying infront of everyone, MULTIPLE TIMES "I know you like being comphy, but this is NICE comphy clothes."

2018: $20 Gift Deal from Delta Sonic for 3 of their cheapo washes that you need to pay at least $10 to upgrade to an actualy useful car wash. And an Applebees coupon. (Which me and the GF dont really eat at)

2017: A $20 7/11 gift card "For Gas"....that cant even fill my gas tank. AND the nearest 7/11 to me that actually sells gas is the one by her house. 45 MINUTES AWAY FROM MY HOUSE!!!


2016: $20 Macys Gift card.... I dont shop there....



What I got her


2019:$50 Resturants Gift Card (Good at a bunch of resturants in the local area, including one of their favorite resturants)

2018:$50 Resturants Gift Card

2017: Used my work discount to get them a decent soundbar/subwoofer combo that they wanted for their living room TV.

2016: $100 Home Depot gift card (They were doing work on the house so they used it for tools and supplies)




I wonder who is putting more care into their gifts..... So after this year with both shitty gifts, I am just done....and ive told both my parents that. I dont expect anything from them and I wont be getting anything for them. They arent happy I have said that. and are still deluded that she is trying to be a nice sibling.

Yeah, I don't get it either but I guess you can turn anything into a horror movie if you try hard enough.

Yeah, I'm glad they decided to rate it properly

OH fun... gues we both had interesting gifts to deal with

Yeah, I know what you mean. It's kinda crazy what people can claim things that dark as kids movies

Yeah, I've seen some of the death scenes and I can't believe that it was rated for children