Confronting your parents
 

As somebody who lied his way out of his first confrontation, and told only his mom on his second (who by the way doesn't understand), I'd like to know how many of you have told your parents and the events leading to and consequences after said "talk."

i'm gonna say this now since this'll b a redundance

there is no need to tell your parents.

i told my mom for two reasons

1. to relieve the stress of hiding it (it really did help)

2. my mom would find out eventually.

but as i said and alot of people will THERE IS NO NEED TO TELL YOUR PARENTS EVER

Yeah I talked to my mom about it and now see talks to me about it like its a sickness.
You know like saying something like this "I hope you get over this" which says very clearly that she does NOT understand and she NEVER will understand.
But besides that I am very pissed off at her right now because she makes it a sick hobby of hers to keep repeating stuff like fifty freaking times which gives me the impression that she thinks me so moronic that I can't possibly comprehend something no matter how basic the first time around.
Well I hope some of you out there are having better luck then me.

I never have and never will talk to my parents about it. This is something I feel doesn't apply to them or anyone else in my family.

I also feel the consequences would be dire...leading to some bridges being burnt. This is because of some things said about this part of my life in the past.

Sorry to say I can't say I have any experience with telling parents about it...just friends.

when i told my mom it was a "big lipped alligator moment"

( watch this to get what i mean: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WJRBPlnBg24 )

Don't plan on telling my parents, because, as Dr. J said, it doesn't really apply to them... if they do happen to bring it up (though I doubt they will) I may as well just spill it all, but tell them to just forget about it and not worry because I pay for it myself and they aren't any worse off

I'm only telling my girlfriend if I can help it, and so far only telling her has worked wonders XD My mom really doesn't need to know, it doesn't apply to her, and I'd never get anything good out of it even if I did tell her.

I don't have to worry about that my parents. They're the ones who put me back in diapers anyways, so I don't need to explain I just have to pretend that I don't enjoy it which is pretty hard to do.

Sorry to ask this but what did you do to make them put you back into diapers and what kind are they making you wear?

i never told my parents any of this but one day about two or three years ago my mom found my diapers under my dresser and all hell broke loose, first of all she as angry but then she calmed down and she thought i had a problem, i lied my way out of it by telling her that i had bedwetting problems at night sometimes and she bought it (not diapers but the lie) and we talked for a few minutes and none of this surfaced ever again. but the next day my dad came home all high and he and my mom got into a fight and my mom called the police and my dad used the 4th and 6th amendment rights and the police never came into the house and my mom left for a bit and came home and after the police left my dad brought me and my sister into his room and talked to us about the mess and he told me to stay and my sister left. he talk to me about what my mom told my dad cause in the place where i kept the diapers she also found some penthouse magizenes and me and my dad had the "birds and the bees" talk. after that i wanted to talked to him about pot and if we could smoke it together because i smoke pot every now and then but not constantly and i want to smoke it more cause i belive that he had a good source on where to get some but mabey one day i will get to smoke with him someday.

I got drunk and told half my family while drunk and they all shruged and said everone has their thing my mom doesnt care to talk about it XD but she knows I wear and that I have a stuffie. dad knows I have a stuffie but he doesnt know about the babyfur thing at all and I will never tell him :3

Until you get drunk again ^.^
I never have gotten drunk but I sure as hell have been stoned before.

actually im not drinking anymore...recently had a suicide attempt while drunk and drinking leads me to believe I lose most of my common sense drunk XD

Well I guess he won't find out then.

lol hell no XD my dad isnt the type to be like oh ok -cross eyed- hed throw me out T^T

T _ T Now thats cold.....
Oh and if you could make one wish what would it be? (Wishing for multiple wishes does not count)

thats unrelated and random but ok lmao I will make my wish- my wish would be for everyone in the world to be happy for all living things to live without pain and live in harmony ^^ yeah cheesy but -shrugs

well i don't want to imagine what my dad would have done to me if he was still with me and he found out.......... ugh i can only imagine

well dont imagine if you dont want to XD

well even though i last saw him when i was one my mom kept telling me he was unpredictable when he was ether drinking or doin' drugs (don't ask me what i don't know)

-hugs- well it sucks you grew up fatherless...but im glad you didnt have to put up with his actions creed-

i did 4 a year but after that he ditched me and long story short i was better off without him

-nods- well im glad he left then

ya same here. when i called him a couple years ago he never knew who i was

id hit him for you man >.>

no it's fine i got my own way of getting back at him. but getting back on topic. my dad would probably flip a lid if he found out or i told him.

Like I've said before, my sister told my mother after finding links to ABDL sites on the internet history. My mother freaked out at me and I lost all respect for her. My mother told my father and he was fine with it, fine to the point of buying me diapers. I got revenge on my sister by revealing that she was looking at gay furry threeways.

So, it was a horrible terrible thing for your sister to rat on you, but it was right for you to do the same thing to her.....?

You told on her at Pizza hut, no?

I think I've heard this story and I was making sure you were the same person...

i think it's a sibling think coming from me who is an older brother (or to get technical half brother since my sis has a different dad)

but the point is that it's sibling rivalry on the base of who can dig up the most mud about the other.

Really? I just make fun of my older brother and pull vicious pranks on him. But anyway,
we're a bit off topic. I understand about a mom NOT understanding though. I must have explained it at least three times in detail, but she keeps telling me to stop because she," doesn't want me getting into anything weird." I can't tell my dad because he's the type of man to either cry about it or get enraged and leave for a couple of days. Every Friend I've ever had would stab me in the back in a second if it meant their own gain. So I'm pretty much screwed in terms of ever being able to tell anyone.

my dad's the kinda man who would just get enraged

hmmm my moms that way but shes ussally calm my dad were distant

Talk about this with my parents!? Hell no, they would never understand why i like wearing diapers. It is my greatest secret of all, and ill never reveal it for them.

Besides, im going to move from home this month so it would be just stupid revealing a secret that i have occulted in 10 years.

(sorry 4 mah spelling)

well my mom ddn't understand but she don't care what i do

My mom is so nosy and my dad... He would just have his world torn apart

I don't think I'd tell my parents. Dad's fresh out of jail, with his ex-wife(my stepmom), and my mom is just... kind of overreactive(not a word, but wtf). Workin' on finding a job, so I can move out on my own, and not worry about censure from my family about my fetishes and interests in general. You'd be surprised about how hard it is to find a job in this town.

First post, but feeling good about it.

Eh. Same goes for me. I'd never tell. Why? Because my family does not need to know.

On another note - Shinmeiryuu your name is based off of something from negima right? That or there's something like it in the world.

Indeed, Negima. Used to be a huge fan, but I still continue to use the name, "Shinmeiryuu" for sites and forums.

I agree that there really is no reason to ever tell your parents. Besides if your not sure they will like it or not well then why risk it. And if they find out on there own I guess that can only mean one thing ... you suck at hidding things hahahaha