Respect women more
 

Ok so to get a few things straight right off the bat... im not bashing men..... yet..... KK so I am a boy just so you know and i have found that the AB/DL/TB community in dominated by guys.... now this isn't because there are more guys, it just means that more girls don't feel comfortable online with this topic. some do, but others are pushed away by the guys who push really hard and look for nothing but sex or sexual gratification. I understand that for many, AB/DL involves sex, but that isn't all it is. There is a lot more to it then jsut the sexual aspects. There is the comfort, the security, the naughty pleasure, the embarressment, the happiness, the need, and so much more that we experiance as a result of our diapers. Everyone is different and i know that not everyone will feel the same way as this, but try to understand that the women in this community are looking for companionship, security, friendliness, acceptance, and yes for sexual purposes, but the sex is a small part. Also, there is a lot of pressure in the male side of the AB/DL community. Women are often questioned as to if they are really women or not. Some men are into the dressing up thing... i am not one of them personaly but i have thought about it to be honest... anyway.... to all the guys out there... tone it down a little and let the ladies come out. They dont appreciate the pressure most times and if you were in the same situation i know you would feel the same.

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SO... i want to hear your thoughts and experiances. Ladies, if you have an opinion on this subject, i would love to hear it... and for the guys i want to here your thoughts as well.

I do ask that you keep things light for the most part... no profanity and what not..... for those who took the time to read this, Thank you.

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ok I think I speak for the better guys here when I say we got alot of guys on here that are more like apes or pigs on here .hell the other day I just happened across some vm on somes page you know just stoping by to say hello. and the vm I seen was to put it in a cleaned up way it sead will you be my girl friend and have sex with me.that is one of the best ways to put how come I get pissed at people that treat others like that and it had the question mark with it and no joking it sead he ment it when he asked.

Woah, Well Yah Its really hot for Girls in Diapers and all but I wouldnt harrass them or anything. Thats just...weird and freaky

I'm a member of many, many other communities, and I can back up your feelings, dude.

There's a particular chat room I go in to speak with other members in said communities, and EVERY night there are a list of HNG's (horny net guys) who come into the chatroom and begin asking if there are women on, and if there are, they're immediately asked to privately chat with them. Now these guys might say they're just trying to be friendly, but the women know what they're up to and not surprisingly, get pissed off.

Now that makes it hard for guys like us who actually respect the fact that women on these sites are a little hesitant because of the aforementioned things to actually create some rapport with them. What a shame, especially when I seek companionship! Sadly, this will continue to go on as long as the internet lives. There will ALWAYS be guys who bombard the females with sexual or invasive questions. But remember, "be the change you wish to see!" That is all.

I would have to agree. I'm part of an organization called DeMolay, (look it up if you want to know more about it) and one of our primary lessons is to honor and respect womanhood. Quite honestly, I can't even imagine harassing or doing anything vulgar to a woman; they are people, and we are all people. Everybody should be treated equally, without prejudice or stereotypes.

However, in the opposite spectrum, it ticks me off when women assume that all men are pigs, or that no man can be trusted. Sure, there are some real pricks out there, but they actually account for a very small percentage of the male population, and it's troubling to see when a woman turns down conversation or experiences with ANY man merely because of a illegitimately formed bias.

I get very angry when people accuse me of being a sex crazed stalker just because i am male. I wish people would worry about themselves, or maybe focusing on sexual harassment in general. Also have you ever thought that maybe the abdl community is predominately male and your doomed to be alone because women don't a. like it and b. they don't really believe your feminist bullshit.

Maybe a bit off topic but being white and male is a huge disadvantage in life because people like you think its politically correct to give less qualified people the job just for being female or a non-caucasian. ok thats all i have to say tata for now...

a ok that is bull on me I do know alot of people like that tho gohack

Lol talk about anal. listen, i dont believe in giving someone a job for being the minority. that pisses me off more then anything. I dont think anyone should have special treatment. Believe it or not a lot of women do participate in the abdl community, but rarely say anything. Obviously not all males are bad and i definatly should make it clear that i dont believe all men are bad... btw if u havent figured it out i am a guy.... but the minority do set the image for the masses. It is sad but true. only the best of the best or the worst of the worst are ever seen in this world.

and as for that first part... u havent given me any reason for me to think that your crazy or a rapist or anything like that... i should have made it clear that im not trying to alianate or attack anyone spacifically. I just want people to think more before they do or say something... that whole thing about sticks and stones can break ur bones, and words can never hurt u... well thats a lie. i know people who tried to kill themselves because of words... the point im trying to get across here is that words do have a huge impact. Whether you are a nice guy who ment no harm, a woman who thought they were protecting themselves, or a sick guy looking for nothing but sex....
Both men and women need to clean this up... no one party is truely to blame for it all. Im sorry if i offended you or anyone else... im just voicing my opinion and what i have personally seen a lot of. But that is the beauty of an opinion, you dont have to agree.

One last thing... thanks to everyone for their opinions... either possitive or negative. both sides are appriciated. I dont want a bunch of people doing nothing but agreeing... that brings about nothing but biase that breeds prejugdice and leads to discrimination. So keep on writing and spreading the message around. i look forward to more intresting views on this subject, from everyone. lol kk im done ranting. thanks again for listening.

Sorry I am a very irate or maybe angry person when I have not slept the real reason I was most likely ranting is because of a fight with my parents not what you said I just hate it when people assume men in general are visual pigs anyway I may have jumped the gun a bit and im sorry


Ohh and how long have ya been on the site havnt seen your name around then again havnt been on the site much lately

Although I tend to agree with the position that "white" males get a generally bad rap from the politically correct and their friends (those who come with dubious disclaimers such as "I am a cold, calculating cynic myself, BUT..."), I have witnessed far too many male-like apes blunder around the fetish communities, doing stuff I tend to classify as batshit stupid, to think that it's ALL politically correct propaganda.

However, I have - frighteningly enough - witnessed nearly nothing of the sort here on this forum. At least not amoung the regular forum users, who are the most likely to come over this thread. And I know myself enough to be certain that I wouldn't harrass any woman, lest she is stupid and deserves snide and evil comments (although not of a sexual nature). Not to mention that I've seen a thread like this at least once before. So I wonder: what is the purpose of this message on this board?

Rather than pick on us, I'd advice to go out there on the internets and start a flamewar with whatever entity that behaves like that. I'd say it's more productive, AND it's more fun.