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Originally Posted by DeToms

My support to those who wish to tell, and kudos of you who already have, but I never intend to tell my family. I probably don't intend to tell my girlfriend, or eventually my wife, should I ever get married. I'm still turned on by women, whether this fetish is involved or not, so whether or not it may be unhealthy, I plan on concealing it for my entire life. I doubt it will be hard. I don't wear now, and I doubt I will ever come to a point in my life where I do. I have no other fetishes. I suppose I feel cut off for the same reasons as everyone else. A fear that I won't be accepted. Irrational amongst my parents, but still... embarrassment, fear of being different... these are all things that wrack the mind of any individual. We are programed to have a group mentality.

I suppose I will just give in to chemistry. Submit and conceal.

I would recommend telling at least someone... because it feels fantastic when you know someone else fully understand what's going on