First leaking accident ...

[tkb]

2 days ago i had my first real leaking accident ... i suppose on one side the tape of diaper just wasn't as strong and not great positioned above that.
At first wetting when i was still standing upward it wasn't such a problem.
But when i got into bed i had to go a little again and my diaper was staring to hang a little.
When i eventually had to go a little more the side that wasn't as strong got kinda burst from the pressure and i even wet in the bed a bit ...

Now when you are peeing in a diaper it's all cute humiliating and child-ish fun and games but that exprience i went through can't say i enjoyed it ... It just felt wrong and weird.
In the middle of the night without my parents noticing i kinda had to patch things up.

I can't really blame the diaper brand or what it can absorb since that one is one of my favourites and i never had a problem with it before, even if you pee a lot in it and it stars to go down it still perfectly holds up i had actually done that several times it's a funny feeling when it's all blown up .

Any tips on avoiding an exprience this is again or got some similar expriences.

[terminator101]

From what you described, it sounds like you might have been using a baby disposable diaper instead of an adult disposable diaper. The former has padding and a plastic backsheet that is not designed to hold the volume of wetness and amount of shearing forces that can be produced by an adult. You can try using the latter which usually has more padding (Relative to the amount of padding in a baby diaper) and two or more fastening tapes on each side (For a total of four or more tapes) which attempt to accommodate an adult's taller and wider waist (See diagram below). There are a few ABDL disposable diapers that have only one large tape on each side which attempt to emulate the look and feel of a baby diaper (See "2 Tape Diapers" offered by ABUniverse) but most ABDL disposable diapers will have two fastening tapes on each side (e.g. - See diapers offered by Bambino Diapers and Diaper Connoisseur). However, even with the extra padding and tapes, diapers made for adults can still be prone to leakage due to an adult's [Lack of prefect] body curvature [At the waist and legs], especially under heavy usage (See the following article entitled "Why Big Babies Leak" for a detailed explanation -> http://understanding.infantilism.org/leaks.php). What some people do to try to minimize leakage is to wear plastic pants over their diapers (e.g. - See the selection offered by ABDL Factory -> http://abdlfactory.com/plastic-pants). I hope that this helps~!

[tkb]

No I wasn't it was just bad luck and carelessness on my part I guess ... The one I was using was crinklz they are speciffly made for adults. But that article is pretty interesting hadn't really thought of it that way.

[terminator101]

I'm sorry for the misunderstanding. It's good that you read that article but please don't get the crazy notion in your mind that you should go on a fatty food eating binge to make yourself plumper around the waist and thighs so that your body will start to get curvy like a baby's body which would make any diaper's elastic leg gathers cling better to your body's new proportions, tightening the seal at the legs and thus further minimize leakage - The extra curvy girth in your waist and thighs still won't compensate for the extra height in your adult waist, among other things. Like the article suggests, the increased curvature alone won't matter since there are other factors, like the surface area ratios of the adult diaper to the adult body (diaper:body) and the shearing force exerted by the adult body onto the adult diaper itself, that will still negate or minimize the effect that any increase in curvature to your body may have (Besides, it would not be healthy for your heart if your body suddenly gained a lot of weight).

[terminator101]

There is one more thing that you can try to avoid accidental leakage when you are using an adult disposable diaper (Even one that is fitted correctly around your waist and legs) which does not involve using an uncomfortable plastic pant over your diaper - You can insert an adult disposable diaper doubler (Rectangular shaped) or an adult disposable contoured (Hour glass shaped) booster pad inside of your diaper to boost its absorbancy. NorthShore Care has an economical product line of such items (See their website -> https://www.northshorecare.com/boost...t_dd=491%2C481). When the diaper doubler or contoured booster pad is full, it allows any extra wetness/mess to flow through its backing into the diaper. If you change the diaper doubler or contoured booster pad before it is full, you can possibly save the more expensive disposable diaper for future use (Assuming that nothing has already flowed through into the diaper). Their product demo video (See below) also mentions that you can even stack multiple diaper doublers or contoured booster pads to add extra absorbancy which also thickens your diaper (Some peeps enjoy wearing a thick, bulky diaper)! Best of all, you don't have to worry about the adult diaper doublers not being babyish as NorthShore offers the same exact product (Only smaller) for use in baby diapers (See below)!


BTW - On their website, it says that they're "AB/DL friendly" -> https://www.northshorecare.com/abdl-...-products.html. They even stock the Rearz Crinklz diaper that you mentioned in post #3! -> https://www.northshorecare.com/new-p...lz-briefs.html

Click on the above picture to see the product demo video.





Click on the above picture to see the product page.

[tkb]

Thanks i just bought a few since i had to get new diapers anyway.

[terminator101]

You're welcome! Also consider this: Even the most absorbent diaper cannot match the combined absorbancy of any diaper that is stuffed with one or more diaper doublers! Speaking of which, there are also other generic brand and name brand adult diaper doublers available for purchase (e.g. See -> http://www.idiaper.com/booster-pads1 and https://www.vitalitymedical.com/booster-pads.html). Some generic brands include Tranqulity and Dignity while some brand names include Attends and Abena. You'll need to shop around for the best prices.

Also, for the cost of one or two packs of disposable diaper doublers (Depending upon whether you buy generic or name brand), you can buy a reusable cloth diaper doubler (See -> http://www.idiaper.com/extra-absorbe...rs-booster-pad or https://www.llmedico.com/product/35/...ntinence-pads/) which would be more economical over time. The best part about a reusable cloth diaper doubler is that you can further soften it up with more fabric softener with each wash (Of course, in your situation, you'll have to do the laundry in your family so that you can sneak it in and out of the wash load among your own clothes)! With the disposable ones, you're limited to the amount of softener that is already built into the doubler by the manufacturer.