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**Miss Manners** · June 3rd, 10, 03:39 AM

honestly now. it's ridiculous! baby boy abdl's either fight their diapers, their swaddlings, or conveneintly seem to "fall asleep" during their diaper changes or bottle feedings! i've only been a care taker for a few boys here but are they all that way? what is it? do they have a hang-up about a girl changing their diapers that they have to seemingly *feign* unconsciousness when being diapered? it's almost as if they are saying, "wake me up when you're finished lady!" i find it unnerving!! as a mother/auntie i look for some social *feed back and dialogue* as this is supposed to be a healthy social interrraction between caretaker and child.,..at least enough to let me know they are still alive!! i never get that silent treatment when changing little girls. some will even sing cute little songs during their diaper changes. they don't seem to have a problem with it, but little boys??? i'll never ever understand boys! it's as though they're from the Planet X!!

~~Stellar Dreamer~~ · June 3rd, 10, 03:50 AM

hard to say. I don't interact with males but IF i HAD to guess id say its because they don't normally injoy that kinda attention

**Bandit Keith** · June 4th, 10, 02:23 AM

a first I want to know what do you mean taking care of boys on here?if you mean rp then I don't understand myself unless the character being used is stuber or made to wear a diaper or stuff like that .anyway it could be thats how some people think baby's act.

**Miss Manners** · June 4th, 10, 08:55 PM

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Originally Posted by atomisk the pirate king

a first I want to know what do you mean taking care of boys on here?if you mean rp then I don't understand myself unless the character being used is stuber or made to wear a diaper or stuff like that .anyway it could be thats how some people think baby's act.

of course, i was referring to *here* i don't know. it just seems that most abdl boys tend to cover their reactions to being changed, hiding behind the cover of *shame* or embarrassment, conveniently falling asleep rather than socially interacting with the care giver. but why should they? after all, diapers are an integral part of a baby's world and especially an abdl's world, just as any other garment is part of an adult's world. and no, i wasn't referring to using diapers as an instrument of humiliation. true though, some babies are rebellious to having their diapers changed, and some fight it vehemently with tears, kicking and screaming. maybe you're right then. some folks may think that's the norm. hard to say.

**Gohannie** · June 4th, 10, 09:02 PM

falling a sleep during a change :S well i am a male but i deffinitly don't fall asleep during a change, way to exhitting *blush*

**Miss Manners** · June 4th, 10, 11:56 PM

well then, perhaps i've unfairly jumped to conclusions. which really isn't fair to the male abdl population. i'm sure like everything, there are exceptions and it wouldn't be fair to categorize every abdl baby boy into a singular category. it's just that that's been my experience thus far, but then again, i've been a care giver to so few of them. i just wish they could be more entertaining, like singing or responding...even in some baby talk. that would be so cute! care givers want to be rewarded for their efforts, and when a baby responds in silence, as if they are a lifeless doll, leaves me feel cheated out of what could have been a delightfully rewarding and happy activity.

**Sami-Chan** · June 5th, 10, 12:32 AM

Well, I know why we women don't do this. Most of us are more outgoing and not-shy when it comes to this. Its just our nature, in a way. We're more willing to share this with other much, much more. Guys....think of it as if they're about to ask out a girl they like. I never knew guys would fall asleep during changes, but maybe its to hide their embarassment or something?

**Miss Manners** · June 5th, 10, 01:04 AM

you raised a very valid point Sami-chan. personally, i think when a girl is a care giver for many (not all) baby boys, it challenges their male egos in retrospect revisiting their baby hood. that didn't exist back then but it does in retrospect. the male ego is something that's always confused me, complex as it is. i'll never understand it or why they put such impenetrable barriers up during such a simple natural thing as a diaper change. i think for us, it helps us feel cute, cuddly, pretty,and very much loved and cared for... and we've no problems with that at all. it's a natural part of our human matrix. but go figure!

**Winnie Cooper** · June 5th, 10, 04:18 PM

Wait - you are talking about boys on here did you say? So you mean in a RP online situation?

Well I know that for me, I never quite know what to do in an online RP situation. That's why you never see me involved in any of the RPs here.

But if it is a real time thing ... well I'll just be blunt and gross here ... maybe they are too busy doing something else with their hands to type. Just a thought.

**Miss Manners** · June 5th, 10, 04:46 PM

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Originally Posted by Winnie Cooper

Wait - you are talking about boys on here did you say? So you mean in a RP online situation?

Well I know that for me, I never quite know what to do in an online RP situation. That's why you never see me involved in any of the RPs here.

But if it is a real time thing ... well I'll just be blunt and gross here ... maybe they are too busy doing something else with their hands to type. Just a thought.

no, it wasn't a *real time* thing. it's in RP situations, so i would imagine they would find some time to "free up their hands" to at least express some social emotional reaction and interaction to at least give me an indication they had a body temperature somewhere above 90 deg. F., a heart beat and pulse, and an IQ somewhere above 60, and that i wasn't changing a diaper for a mannequin or a lifeless doll.

but you know what i honestly think? i think many abdl boys could possibly have problems expressing their emotions, and have difficulty facing up to that fact. some, more than others. i have no clue. perhaps they are like "emotionally handicapped" or temporarily indisposed, their male egos feeling threatened by such a simple baby/caregiver activity.

actually, i found the whole thing funny, that a baby boy being diapered, conveniently falls asleep through the whole process, and finally *wakes up* three or four RP replies by other RP'ers later as if he were anesthetized for a surgical operation.

either way, it leaves the caregiver feeling empty and cheated out of what could have been a very gentle giving, caring experience.