ok! why do most boy abdl's seem to fight their diapers and swaddles?

[growyoungfordiapers]

Well, considering, uh, I'm a guy... It would be kinda unsettling to just jump into things. Mental preparedness is good.
And, y'know, those parts are private for a reason.

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Holy shit, RPs? This is about RPs?
Uggh, I can do anything on an RP. Even not fight in the, uh, whatever Miss Manners said.
Maybe they're making their characters too much like themselves.
Maybe that should be clear.

[yubel]

...Words can not descibe how I feel about this... But for me I'm not that great at roleplaying. But I have'nt ver fallen asleep in either role unless its something like a night time cuddle or something...I dont know how to help, I'm sorry.

[Poesdaughter]

That might bother me a little bit. I have to admit, when I wrote my last story involving diapers, the character being changed was shy. I made him hide his face, sniffle a little bit, the works. I might make a character fight it, but for me that's because I love the concept of taking the power away from a proud man or woman and to do that would cause a fight.

However, I also enjoy the idea of a diaper being just a touch humiliating to someone. I'm not so interested in writing a story where it's just for fun, if you understand?

[DBZJared]

Hullo, my name iz Jawed, and I wike to woleplay ^__^

That is one of my pet peeves too, da lack of detail and interaction and/or effort from da other roleplayer(s). I am perfectly content to be loved and cared for and I dump all my effort and detail and love into my interactions wiff da person that is taking care of me.

**smiles from behind his pacifier and huggles his teddybear while nodding** ^__^

[Miss Manners]

Originally Posted by DBZJared

Hullo, my name iz Jawed, and I wike to woleplay ^__^

That is one of my pet peeves too, da lack of detail and interaction and/or effort from da other roleplayer(s). I am perfectly content to be loved and cared for and I dump all my effort and detail and love into my interactions wiff da person that is taking care of me.

**smiles from behind his pacifier and huggles his teddybear while nodding** ^__^

well, hello Jared! what a rarity you are on this website! you sound like a very pleasant little one, a joy and a blessing all rolled into one! thank-you for your very sweet response!.....and don't be a stranger! *sweet smiles*

[neo]

personally as a male I kind of enjoy the whole "interaction" you talk about during the parts of the role-play you speak about again though I'm a special case because of my issues and experiences that are not like most ABs.

I think its actually kinda cute if you get really detailed with those kinds of things (so long as it doesn't get sexual) but I can understand why many don't go that deep here (and in most places). For example how detailed can you describe a diaper or bottle and the actions involved in diapering, while playing the "baby games" used when you change a baby IRL (or at least your supposed to), of course the prints and other things are really nice to have too (if you can load all that in maybe 3 or 4 post exchanges).


I think it comes down to the state of mind during these things and the ability of the players to control (and put into text) the huge numbers of emotions and environmental factors into such a short period of time. Its also hard to keep an appropriate state of mind while writing such challenging things without losing yourself in that moment (wither pleasureful or not).

It can also be very challenging for all but the most skilled writers to accurately come up with a unique situation detailed enough and quick enough to achieve the results as frequently as they come up in a role-play situation.

The kind of stamina drain it creates and how most just don't go that deep is also why I just don't play as much as I used to. I think its just to hard to expect that all the time from everyone.


I know personally though done right I can hit my RP/character target of 2 (or 4 whom likes being treated like 2) quite easily if the caregiver knows how to do it exactly right. ~^_^~ (*giggles*)


Again though it just doesn't involve text but an understanding of psychology, how real children of that age react, and how to control senses within your writing, and people just don't want to go that far anymore for whatever reason. *shrugs*

[Tewi]

Originally Posted by vgagent93

I don't RP because I'm a coward >_>..
I only RP with my girlfriend :3

Not quite sure how you can be a coward lol.

[DBZJared]

Originally Posted by Miss Manners

well, hello Jared! what a rarity you are on this website! you sound like a very pleasant little one, a joy and a blessing all rolled into one! thank-you for your very sweet response!.....and don't be a stranger! *sweet smiles*

**crinkles softly under his sailorboy outfit as he shuffle-toddled over to Miss Manners, looking up wiff his angelic brown eyes as he hugged his babysoft hands around her skirt-covered hips**

[crazypenguin5236]

it might be cuz guys are generally more rebelious than girls, though, since i'm male, i'd have to say that its kinda a stereotype that all guys are like that...
take DBZJared for example, do u really think that he is like that? cuz i don't

[DBZJared]

**shakes his head no wildly and smiles proudly from behind his pacifier** nope not mee.. I loves attenshun, and deetail ... and attenshun to deetail.. and and um..

**puts his little fingers to his chin cutely as if he's thinking for something else** and.. I loves hugs and kisses too! ^__^