I want some opions. Please help.

[Liliel]

So about half a year or so ago one of the guys on our block passed away. Now he was a real ass who had nothing but issues about me and Jen's lifestyle. Now a few days ago a new women moved into his old house which is next to ours. Now at first we hot it off ok but well she happened to look through our window while doing yard work and she kinda saw me in JUST a diaper with my teddy and pacifier. Now if you guys now me then you know I'm a active AB and I play and dress up when I'm in my home or when Jen has time off from work. That being said it seem's the new women has a issue with it and has been starting issues. Its getting to the point where she's getting in the way of me talking to the kid's in our block. I've baby sat two of them and I in general help out them all. I'm on great terms with there folks as well. It just feels like this ladies labeling me and trying to cause issues with me and Jen.

My question is how to deal with her. The cop on our block is a friend of ours and he keeps telling her that what i do in my house is me and Jen's bussniess and of course he knows all about me and still trust's me around kids. That damn women keeps trying though.

Any advice on how to deal with her?

[Bandit Keith]

Well depends on how she is acting act such like is she seeming to assume you are a pedo like how is common for people who don't understand TB's AB's and DL's label such groups or is she just one who seems to want to start shit? I ask as well in my home town I got plenty of both of those types

[Liliel]

Originally Posted by Bandit Keith

Well depends on how she is acting act such like is she seeming to assume you are a pedo like how is common for people who don't understand TB's AB's and DL's label such groups or is she just one who seems to want to start shit? I ask as well in my home town I got plenty of both of those types

Honestly it feels like both.

[Bandit Keith]

Well then all I can say is maybe print out data that proves people into this for the majority isn't a pedo as rare as it may be their is bound to be afew into such things that are ones who are kindo like how for the most part sterotypes aren't true but their will be afew people who are a sterotype of something.

Either that or leave her alone unless it gets too bad then confront her about the shit

[Liliel]

Originally Posted by Bandit Keith

Well then all I can say is maybe print out data that proves people into this for the majority isn't a pedo as rare as it may be their is bound to be afew into such things that are ones who are kindo like how for the most part sterotypes aren't true but their will be afew people who are a sterotype of something.

Either that or leave her alone unless it gets too bad then confront her about the shit

The direct issue with that second one is she starts it not me. basical she makes a big deal out of me more or less doing anything outside my own house.

[Bandit Keith]

I thought so problem is I'm one who is direct with solving issues so yeah no much else I can help you with

[Liliel]

Originally Posted by Bandit Keith

I thought so problem is I'm one who is direct with solving issues so yeah no much else I can help you with

Fair enough. If all else fails I might just have to have words with her. Likely with my cop friend there just to keep things under control.

[terminator101]

I'm sorry to hear that your new neighbor is giving you a hard time, invading your privacy and causing damage to your social life in your neighborhood. There are some things that you can do to attempt to get her to stop harassing you -> http://www.wikihow.com/Deal-with-Som...-Harassing-You, with the strongest measure being getting a restraining order issued against her from a court. If it comes to that (And I hope it doesn't) and she takes the restraining order lightly or ignores it and continues to harass you after being served with the restraining order then you can follow the following steps -> http://thelawdictionary.org/article/...raining-order/ and in the worse case, you can sue her in Small Claims court (The penalty if she is convicted is up to $500 and imprisonment for up to twenty-five days) -> http://www.civillawselfhelpcenter.or...tion/index.php . I hope for your sake that the situation doesn't get that bad as basically you have to live together in the same neighborhood right next to each other.

[AB Avery]

My family, when they lived in Detroit, had a similar issue. One of my cousins has some mental issues, and had been sexually abused by her step father (obviously he's in prison now, though only until his son is 18, which I don't believe is long enough) but she suspected that one of the kids on the block was having abuse issues, so she told them, who went to their grandma (the one who started all the shit) and started assuming our step grandfather is who my cousin was talking about and spread that everywhere (admittedly, she was somewhat justified in the thought process but that's beside the point). Just face it like an adult. Use your officer friend to help stop the rumors in anyway he can, even if he can't eliminate them from the source. In this case, I do agree with terminator that if it gets too far, take legal action. You'd be fully justified for it, even if it is a bit of a pain in the ass. I can't remember the exact legal term for it, but you can get her in trouble, or potentially win a civil suit, if it continues

[Rika]

There is no grounds what so ever for legal action for someone being an unpleasant neighbor. You can't file a civil suit because someone is being fussy about you doing stuff. My advice would be to just ignore her the best you can, if no one else cares then really try and let it roll off your skin. If other people do care can just try to talk to them directly about it.