Wearing Diapers in College? (Plus Girlfriend...)

[Kafei]

Hey, long-time lurker (just check my join date), finally decided to post again, because I have a few questions which would be awesome to have answered:

I'm in college now, and for the past semester and into this semester I've been waiting for the chance to get my hands on some diapers. Ideally, I would like to wear them during the day whenever I can, and potentially wet as well (but not mess, I'm not into that). I know for a fact now that I could pull off at least wearing them at night, and I've only just recently found the sort-of secret one-person bathroom stalls downstairs at my dorm where I could not only change but have an easy place to dispose of any used diapers without anyone knowing. Other bathrooms were always too risky, too public.

Also, however, there is my girlfriend. She knows about my diaper thing, and is skeptical of it, but she has known for quite a while now and even then she agreed to give it a try sometime. So, I had already planned with her that at some point we would eventually swing downtown to CVS and get some diapers, bring them back to her dorm, and then only use them when her roommate goes home for the weekends. Now, I've implied that it would be cute IMO if she wet a diaper, but she doesn't seem entirely into the idea. She's relatively fine with the idea of her trying on a diaper. She didn't seem all too happy when I mentioned that of course I would also be wearing one.

So, what do you all think I should do, and what diapers should I buy? I have a 32-33 waist, not sure about my gf's though. I'm aware that CVS doesn't exactly have the best selection, but it's all I've got, I can't order things here. I'd like the comfiest, I'd also like the most discreet, and I WISH I could fit into a baby diaper or something similarly cute but I'm pretty sure I can't. Thanks in advance.

[Arkos]

i had a similar situation with my ex girlfriend wed been going out about 2 years when i finally told her and she too was sceptical so i persuaded her you know telling her how cute she would look and such and she did say she would try it so i went and i got supplys for the the full AB experience and she came over on time and wed arranged and came upstairs (we had a free house for like a week we normally lived together but with her parents) and when i showed her what id got and asked her if she was ready she just said "i cant do it i only said i would so i wouldnt hurt your feeling, the whole thing is infact a massive turn off and i find it creepy and wrong" so my only advise is dont push her too hard and you need to build up mega slow and only do what shes comfortable with girls say thed do anything for you but they dont like to be called out on it :P

as for size in adults i think youd be a small ...(depends on the brand)

[Clop]

Totally off topic, but what if you read "Green Eggs and Ham" but substituted "wear diapers" for green eggs and ham and your girlfriends name with sam. I might have to try that some time... Then again it wouldn't rhyme... this really sounded a lot better in my head about five minutes ago. Sleep deprivation will make you think of some crazy stuff.

[CCDPA]

Oi I know exactly what you are going through there topic creator. Even revealing to a girlfriend is hard enough and I know that you are very excited to see her diapered maybe even more but take it slow. Really slow and never push her into it too hard.

I did that with my girl. At first I just playfully threw out the idea but quickly added onto it. I finally got some diapers that fit us both only to find that she was a bit too embarrassed to go through with it. I've left her alone about it and exposed her to it more little by little and now she is genuinely into it.

No one answer can solve this problem but for sure don't rush it unless when you mentioned diapers she jumped for joy at the idea.

[Kafei]

Thanks for the advice guys (lol, er, interesting suggestion, Opheliac) I'll try and take it as slow as I can.
@Arkos: About the Depends. I wasn't sure if Depends would be the right ones to try first considering the commonly negative attitude in society towards the brand, saying they're specifically for old people. I thought maybe that would put her off the idea fairly quickly. I looked online at what diapers CVS has in-store, and saw that they have Goodnites, and I was wondering if maybe those would work. I probably wouldn't be able to fit into them though, but she might. I really don't know though. Kinda weird to think, I've been into diapers for years but I feel like I know so little about them even so. Anyway, cute thing happened yesterday, I mentioned the idea again to her, and at first she had her typical skepticism, and then I said something along the lines of her being a little girl with it being her "little secret" and she seemed to like that idea. Well, thanks again guys, this weekend maybe we'll go get some, or I might take Sheamacost's idea more and just wait longer, further introduce the idea or something.

[CCDPA]

Depending on how skinny you are the large goodnites might can fit you and your girl. I wear a size 32 jean size and they fit snug on me wearing two or three at once though is best. You mentioned that she doesn't like the idea of you in diapers as much and is more open to the idea of her being diapered? I would say if that is the case just diaper her for now and get her more comfortable with it.

I hope it all works out for you Kid.

[Kafei]

Bump, update.

So, I managed to go out early in the morning to CVS, and I picked up a 20 pack of Depends Fitted Maximum Protection and some baby powder. They looked on the package the most like baby diapers, and they were relatively cheap. So, I tried getting my gf to try one on, but she was feeling sort of off emotionally that day because of some pills she had to take and I ended up having to comfort her about some other stuff instead, but she knows I have them and there's still a chance she'll try them, just at a different, better time hopefully. I made it clear to her that no matter what, this isn't going to pull us apart or anything, I won't let it, she was afraid I'd get mad at her or something and I was all like, "are you kidding me? Over something like this? I'm not going to force you to do anything, It's up to you, whatever you want, I want to be with you with or without diapers," something along those lines. So, last night I had my chance to, for the first time, wear a diaper that actually fit me and sleep in it. It felt amazing, so comfy. This morning I had to force myself to wet it, which also felt good but also caused it to leak a tiny bit out the side, but I had put a towel under me so it was okay. Tonight I'll wear another one, they crinkle and are way too bulky for me to wear daily, unfortunately. Plus dunno what gf would say if she noticed, which she would if we made out or anything. One annoying thing was how much I sweat under it, which actually caused the stuff in the inside to get bunched up by morning. I would sleep with no cover/sheet, but if my roommate walks in (so glad he sleeps with his gf practically every night) that would suck.
Anyway, thanks for the advice you guys gave me, feels good to finally be a member who wears diapers, even if it is only at night. ^_^

[Kaori Rocks]

Why do people say the depends fitted maximum protection are thick? They are PAPER THIN and they hold absolutely NOTHING. Then again, the people who say that, haven't been fortunate enough to try anything else so they wouldn't know better now would they? See, this is exactly why depends are still on the market.

[Kafei]

Uh, well, I didn't say thick, just bulky. And yes the material itself seems pretty thin and yes it definitely wouldn't hold more than one wetting (at least, that's what it seemed like for me, maybe I'm a heavy wetter?) but that's good enough for me until I can get something better.

[Kaori Rocks]

Unfortunately, if you can't buy online, then you're out of luck. You may possibly be able to find something better in a store but it is EXTREMELY unlikely and very rare. I myself have only found one diaper that was slightly better and that was Attends. I found it in a small drug store and nowhere else. And even in that small drug store it was only in stock for a little amount of time. Depends have NO competition (in stores that is) so The Kimberly Klark company has no need to make them useful at all. Your still gonna buy them because that's all you can get. If you can buy online I could give you some suggestions.